Can’t be rectified later!.. How true is that saying. Whatever mistakes we make today, we will have to live with the consequences for the rest of our lives. You can’t turn back the clock. You can’t unhurt a person’s feelings. And you can make promises to never commit the same mistake again unless you truly mean it.
Some people will always use the ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I didn’t mean it, but so and so upset me so I took it out on you’, as a means to defend their behaviour. Others will say those things to get back in your good books, without sincerity, only to repeat the same things a few months later.
People who make promises like pie-crusts, easily made, easily broken, have no intention whatsoever of trying to rectify the situation they’ve created.
These people are toxic. They are not worthy of your friendship. And above all they are bloody hypocrites.
In order to forgive and forget you need the other person’s sincerity to heal. When you are treated badily a second time. That person had no intention of rectifying their ways. So they are best cast aside because they will forever and a day, do the same to you again.
There is only one person you have to be true to…. YOURSELF.
Part of FOWC – Rectify Challenge.